Guest Author - Cassandra George Sturges
Why do we as women go through so much pain in order for men to look at us? I think that it is because we simply want to be unconditionally loved. We want our man to love and desire only us. We feel that if we are perfect enough we will then be worthy enough to attract and keep true love. However, the real situation is somewhat different.
The Alpha Male
Who are alpha males? Hugh Hefner, Donald Trump, Michael Jordan famous wealthy athletes, movie stars. The alpha male is the individual in the community to whom others defer and follow. Humans and their nearest species-relatives, the chimpanzees, show deference to the alpha of the community by ritualized gestures such as bowing, allowing the alpha to walk first in a procession, or standing aside when the alpha challenges. Canines also show deference to the alpha pair in their pack, by allowing them to be the first to eat and, usually, the only pair to mate. The status of alpha is generally achieved by means of superior physical prowess. Listed below are some of the characteristics of the human alpha male.
When a man is extraordinary wealthy it doesn’t matter how physically unattractive he is because his wealth is a babe-magnet.
Women will always throw themselves at men who are wealthy, successful, or famous, in order to improve their standard of living.
Most alpha males, even when they are in committed relationships, will seek sexual intimacy outside of the committed relationship.
Most alpha males have difficulty interconnecting sex, love and loyalty into one package.
Alpha males generally believe that they deserve to have more than one woman.
Alpha males not only collect expensive cars, guns, cigars and antiques, their collection also includes sexual relationships with beautiful women.
Having a bevy of beautiful women is encouraged and expected behavior of wealthy successful men.
Alpha males need Barbie Dolls in order to maintain their ultra-masculine-male dominant status in society. Barbie Dolls have the ultra-female characteristics that complement his superior alpha status.
Barbie Doll Characteristics include:
Barbie Dolls are plastic. At all costs they must spend money on cosmetic surgery to maintain their youthful appearance. Implants, liposuction, rhinoplasty, breasts lifts, cellulite removal, botox injections, chemical peels and other techniques to maintain or obtain outer appearances, are necessary in order to compete for his affection and attention.
Barbie Dolls do not talk. Alpha men need a woman who is not going to complain about his long work hours, time that he spends with his “boys,” his relationship with other women and his lack of participation in domestic matters.
Barbie Dolls smile all the time. The alpha male needs a woman who doesn’t reveal her feelings of unhappiness in the relationship. She is going to continue to smile when she learns that he has conceived a child outside of the committed relationship.
Barbie Dolls can be placed on the shelf when the alpha male is finished playing with them. When he falls in love with a younger, hipper, new model with fuller lips, he doesn’t have to worry about the long-term effects of the breaking of her heart.
Barbie Dolls need and seek material accessories. The alpha male knows that as long as he is willing to buy her big, fancy homes, expensive cars and jewelry; he doesn’t have to worry about being faithful and loyal to the relationship. Barbie dolls need a lot of expensive monetary upkeep. The alpha male has the money to give her whatever she needs because it validates his wealth and prestige.
The Barbie Doll’s youth and unchanging beauty is her greatest asset. She has a short shelf life. She must have as many children as quickly as possible to ensure her financial future in old age when she is no longer attractive or able to reproduce.
Barbie Dolls don’t ask questions. She is not going to question the alpha male about their future together, his assets or his Swedish bank accounts. She doesn’t question pre-nuptial agreements because she knows that her time is limited in the relationship as she will not be able to compete with the newer models and editions that are marketed each year.
Barbie Dolls are hollow on the inside because they must have extremely low-self esteem in order to put up with the Alpha male’s malarkey. The alpha male’s presence in her life validates her external existence. She believes that her external, physical appearance is the depth of who she is.
